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He Is Not The One

On August 1, 2012, I met an amazing man. He teased me for over an hour during our first conversation. After that first day, I never wanted to see him again. On day two he began to pursue me, asked me what I thought about him, and asked me if we could hang out. For two months we did just that, we hung out and shared each other's company.

Unfortunately, after three months, I began to notice that the visits and calls came fewer and farther between. When I confronted him about the lack of communication, he stated that it wasn't me and that his life was pulling him in too many directions. His explanation had too many holes. From that point, I stopped allowing my heart to lead the relationship and began to engage the head and use common sense.

The red flags were mounting up; therefore, a choice had to made. On Friday, December 14, 2012, I made a decision to back off. I am a very special woman and I deserve more. Since I usually initiate most calls, and he simply returns my calls, there was a serious disconnect with our relationship.

Sadly, I wonder if he will even noticed that I don't call any more. What a sad ending to what could have been a promising relationship. Life is short, precious and filled with possibilities. I am moving on to enjoy that life.

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